my girl is pregnant
#31
Re: my girl is pregnant
she got you with the old "keep a ***** baby"
that's it right there buddy. you'll look back in a few years and be glad it happened because it forced you to become somebody. before, you only had yourself to support, now you have another mouth to feed.
Originally Posted by RotaryGeek
na this is probably just what i need to force myself to grow up.
#32
Re: my girl is pregnant
Originally Posted by Stealthmode
haha, the jokes on you jack. She stopped taking her pills because she's tired of waiting for you to marry her. The child seals the deal, and you're not in control of any of this anyhow, so just relax and ---- that ---- crazy for the next 8 months.
(oh, then leave her)
(oh, then leave her)
Dude I'll tell you this....if you would have told me 8 years ago that i would have 2 kids and be a SOLO dad with a deadbeat mom, i would have laughed in your face and accused you of smoking crack.....honestly you already have the right mindset...if your concerned about the financial aspect and the fact you want to be around by itself means alot of it will just fall into place for you. your still in shock...your nuts are currently shriveled to the size of raisins going "oh ---- what did i do" but like putting on some warm underwear fresh out of the cloths drier, they will drop back down and you will regain your confidence and lose that whole "oh ---- i dont know what to do" mentality.....
MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT
Bust a nut in that girl ANYTIME withing 6 weeks of her popping out your kid or you **WILL** have baby number 2 about 9 months later.
marriage? fucccccccck no
that just means breaking up cost money and she will get to ---- you in the *** long afterward
#33
Re: my girl is pregnant
Dunno if I should say "congrats" or "you're fucked," but good luck nevertheless.
I really hope for your sake she's one you can be with through the life of the child. I don't believe you could really know someone well enough in 10 months, and it would suck to end up paying full time child support for a child you see half the time.
Personally, if it was legal, and she didn't flip the ---- out when you asked (which I'm guessing she would if she really did stop taking the pill), I'd abort ASAP unless I was absolutely sure I'd be able to handle the expenses and that she isn't a psycho that will take your *** to court in the future.
I really hope for your sake she's one you can be with through the life of the child. I don't believe you could really know someone well enough in 10 months, and it would suck to end up paying full time child support for a child you see half the time.
Personally, if it was legal, and she didn't flip the ---- out when you asked (which I'm guessing she would if she really did stop taking the pill), I'd abort ASAP unless I was absolutely sure I'd be able to handle the expenses and that she isn't a psycho that will take your *** to court in the future.
#34
Re: my girl is pregnant
Originally Posted by junkyard racer
Oh yeah, lots of people say pregnant sex is the greatest thing in the world....
But I figure it like this. You may as well keep her happy cause you're paying for the kid regardless if you get sucked off a couple mornings out of the week.
#35
Re: my girl is pregnant
Originally Posted by widebody93
Congrats to you, 2.5 hrs from now and will be locked in at 1 year, and then some nasty *** one year old cake to try to eat a bite of then well
#36
Re: my girl is pregnant
Meh, don't worry. You'll tend to want to become a workaholic, and your woman needs to go with that and not get all whiny/emotional. There is a reason why married men with kids make 2.5 times what unmarried men without kids make, your biology will kick in and it'll be cake. I'm going through the same thing right now... not married or anything, but I have a definite family unit and custody of my kid, and money is flowing to my fingers better than anytime before in my life. It's all in the attitude.
The only thing that has me worried is... she told you by phone call? Is she just really immature, or are there special circumstances taking place?
The only thing that has me worried is... she told you by phone call? Is she just really immature, or are there special circumstances taking place?
#37
Re: my girl is pregnant
Originally Posted by junkyard racer
Oh yeah, lots of people say pregnant sex is the greatest thing in the world....
I agree... it's not like she can get more pregnant definately congrats though. i love the thought of being a dad but damn its gonna be expensive when it happens
#40